I haven’t written about this is in any of my other blogs yet… but I figured it’s something I should write about.
My dad performed at Carolines’ on Broadway this past weekend.
For the better part of over a year now, I’ve seen my dad get more and more upset. He’s had a bad string of luck in the past decade with career choices. His first career, business management, didn’t pan out too much when they moved the majority of his company (Playskool Baby) to Mexico. He switched gears and got a job at a publishing company for a while (I can’t remember — but I think it folded). While there, he attended the Chubb Insitute for Computer Science. Shortly thereafter, he got a job at Nine West, programming computers… which worked out perfectly, until the programming jobs were outsourced to India. He was soon employed at Sony, but his programming job suffered the same fate.
Since then, he’s been unemployed. Not for the lack of trying, mind you. Many companies actually won’t hire him because he’s overqualified… and he’d be too expensive of a hire. So, he worked to get his real estate license, which would’ve been great if the real estate market didn’t hit an overall slump. As a result, my dad has been kind of lost lately. He wants to get back into the workforce, but isn’t sure what direction to move in — everything he tries seems to die shortly thereafter.
My dad has always encouraged me. When I was a nine-year-old who wanted to be a baseball player, he was sure I’d play for the New York Yankees. When I was in high school and professed my desire to wrestle for the WWE, he wasn’t enthralled, but he supported me. And now, as a result of his support, I am pursuing my dream of acting. It was certainly time to return the favor.
I posed the question to my dad — what was his dream? As a child, it was to be a basketball player, but nobody supported that. Instead, he was thrust into the world of football — where he was permanently removed from the world of sports after sustaining a career-ending injury in high school. So, that one was out of the question, obviously. Nowadays, my dad’s also had a vested interest in filmmaking and comedy.
Although there’s not too much that I can do to help, I encouraged him to pursue one or the other. I mean, he’s already tried his hand in a bunch of things that he didn’t really want to do, he might as well try for one of the things he wants. I mean, even if he wasn’t good at it, maybe he’d have some fun on the way.
I opened up a copy of Back Stage I had lying around and showed him some web addresses, specifically those of the New York Film Academy and Stephen Rosenfeld’s American Comedy Institute. My dad seriously considered them both, and earlier this year, decided upon the latter.
Well, this past weekend, it was showtime for my dad.
I wasn’t sure what to expect. I mean, my dad didn’t try out any of his routine on me beforehand, nor did he give me any clue of what it would entail.
I was nervous for him when he got up there. Partially so he wouldn’t have to be.
He did great. Way better than the other people in the class — and I’m not just saying that as the son watching his father, but also from the perspective of that jackass who sits back at a comedian and says “Okay, make me laugh!”
I’ll tell you this though…
I’m proud of my dad.


